Dear Fatima

What’s your struggle?  What stones has life thrown your way? Everyone has them- problems that constantly linger on your mind and you just don’t know what to do about them.  At Stones to Bridges, we believe that everyone should have a place to unwind and address what’s on their mind. It's time to take those stones and build your bridge.

Anonymously ask “Fatima”, our seasoned team of Professional Muslim Counselors, both male and female, for their thoughts and insight. Ask Fatima about anything on your mind – school, family, love, sadness, abuse and anything else!  Sometimes an objective perspective and fresh mind can do you good.

Click here to submit your struggle and anonymously ask “Fatima” anything that's on your mind.

We are here to help you help yourself! “Fatima” will respond to your question; however, if you would like us to connect you with a therapist or counselor in your area, please click here to send us your contact information.

 
Confusion

Confusion

I am a 16 year old girl and I became friends with this very nice Muslim boy and we became close and he told me he had feelings for me. We never acted upon the feelings and just continued being friends but his parents took his phone and read some texts and are very angry. ... Read More
 
Problems

Problems

Dear, Fatima I’m 16 year old girl who is confused about homosexuality in Islam. Not that I’m gay or anything or ik confused, I’m confused in the sense of relationships like friendships with them. I figured out my old friend in childhood was a lesbian, so no chance of friendship there,but then when I got ... Read More
 
Doubts

Doubts

Hi, I am an 18-year-old girl. I have a lot of doubts during wuzu and prayers. I always think that I broke my wuzu because sounds come from my stomach or from my bottom, but I’m not sure if I released wind. I know that I shouldn’t pay attention to these doubts, but they seem ... Read More
 
Continuous Problems

Continuous Problems

Dear Fatima, I’m trying to be a more confident girl, not because I’m a senior in high school and I have a reputation to build but because I really want to present myself well so that I am myself and don’t shy away even when I’m not the perfect star everyone loves. My father however, ... Read More
 
struggling to stay alive

struggling to stay alive

Dear Fatima, These next 3 weeks are going to be complete hell because I have so many tests and things going on at school. Then on top of it, I have a sister who is really self centered, nosy, and mean. I have never come across anyone worst my entire life. In any and every ... Read More
 
Fake

Fake

I am a 17 year old girl. I have problems with concentration on studies. I have not managed to sit through a full 3 hour practice ACT exam even once. The one time I did I drank coffee before taking it. I have taken the real ACT exam twice. The first time I messed up ... Read More
 
Alone

Alone

Dear Fatima, I’m 15 years old female and my parents have decided to move to a new house, I know this is going to sound really stupid but I actually was sad when I heard this. My problem Fatima, is that I already feel alone as is,  and this home that I live in now ... Read More
 
Abnormal behaviors

Abnormal behaviors

Salam. I am going to be an 18 year old girl on January 4. Sadly, I still have childish, abnormal behaviors. I believe these behaviors overlap with OCD, which I have been diagnosed with. Almost every day, I pick all the skin off of my lips. I don’t even care about the pain or the ... Read More