Assalamualaikum. Hope you are well. I am 25 years old. I have one older sister and one younger brother. From the get go, I’ve always felt out of place in my home. Like I don’t belong here. I never had a close relationship to either of my parents. My mom has always seen me as her scapegoat and punching bag. Whatever happens wrong, she finds any way to blame me. She’s always put my sister and brother above me even when I’m the one that does everything for her and takes care of her. It hurts and sucks so much. She’s always looking for a way to belittle and ridicule me. She has gone around the past 10 years telling people that she never wanted me and that she wanted to abort me but my father did not let her and that after some time he also felt like that was a mistake. I’ve done everything in my power to keep her happy, even choosing a career path that I hate just because that’s what SHE wanted. At the age of 25, being mentally, physically and psychologically abused, I am tired. My father passed away a couple of years ago from cancer. I was his caretaker towards the end of his life and did dropped school to spend as much time with him. It hurts to hear that he felt like keeping me was a mistake. Another thing is my mom’s blatant ignorance and gender inequality. I am treated so much differently than my younger brother and told that I should kiss the ground he walks on because he is the sole son of the house. He holds no responsibility (at the age of 22) and I am expected to do every little thing for him. I’m tired of this. Alhamdullilah I am engaged to a wonderful man (who unfortunately is recovering from surgery at the moment so we cannot get married until he heals) and am just waiting to marry him and leave behind this life. I do not want to see my mother after I leave, I do not care for her and I do not love her. But unfortunately I feel so much guilt. I don’t think I deserve to be treated this way and I know Allah SWT sees my pain and suffering. At times I feel very much alone. I don’t know what to do. I don’t know where to turn. I’m sad and I’m tired.